Things Fall Apart

While reading Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe, it astounds me that Okonkwo is frightened to show his compassion towards others, so he is seen as a cruel and dangerous man. He is afraid because in their society individuals who show emotions are seen as a coward and is looked down upon which is absurd. I think that showing emotion toward one another tightens the bond that they have between them. We can see this come into play throughout Okonkwo's relationship and his family. He displays little consideration to his three wives and shows no emotion to his children except anger which results in ruthless incidents such as beating and killing. In addition, I feel like because of the fear that has built up inside Okonkwo of becoming like his father, he never shows any emotion openly, unless it is anger which hides his genuine emotions and internal conflict to prove his masculinity. I just wish that Okonkwo has the strength to show just a little bit of compassion towards the people he loves because it could change so many unfortunate events that occurred. For instance, if he simply displayed a slight bit of love towards Ikemefuna, he probably wouldn't have had to die in such a brutal way. As I continue to read this novel, I would like to see Okonkwo show his feelings toward the people he loves which is unlikely since he doesn't want to be seen as a coward.