The Littlest Things
My goals throughout this year and for many years is simple. It's to limit my mind on focusing on only one thing, the littlest things. Not weather I get A's or B's, or if I do win the CIF championships for Mayfair tennis this year. It is the littlest steps, the hard work to get the A's B's, the hours on court and in the gym, and the nutrition that matters, nothing else. Why? Because people who know what hard work is, know that you must work hard and continue and repeat because you love it, working hard and doing what you were born to do.
On the topic of Grades, this perspective is very efficient. On a test, especially in Math. The littlest mistakes could be the biggest reason why you have a grade that may not suit you. Don't think about Stanford, USC, etc. Don't think about, will I be good enough? Think about the little things, that you can do to make you better, because you WILL NEVER BE GOOD ENOUGH. The fact that you will never be good enough, shouldn't scare you. It means the opposite, that you should work your hardest to be at wherever you will end up. In life in general, you can always improve with a brighter smile, and better attitude. That no matter where or who you are in life, you should stay humble, stay positive, and don't forget where you came from. In sports the little things, footwork and form can make the biggest difference. In shorter words, everything will come at the right time and place, it's destiny. You could work the hardest by studying, or practicing, many hours that you can still lose or get a bad test score. Losing or winning is not what matters. Although, unfortunately that's what the majority wants to see. The big win, or The Big A. The thing to remember when you get to a big opportunity, is that it is all the hard work you put in every little thing, every day you could, that got you to this big moment and now it is time to seize the opportunity and make the most of it. No matter whether you win or lose, that you really work your hardest, and try your best. Losing is sometimes better, because you come back as a beast, you've trained harder, and your faster, it makes you hungry for more. Trust me, I don't enjoy losing, I loathe losing. I mean, I was taught from 6 years old in soccer to be very competitive, with my father as my coach, so I understand what the feeling is like to both lose and win. When you win, it's hard to not let it get to your head. What helps me is not just losing, but remembering there is always another girl out there, working just as hard maybe harder to beat you, and you can't let that happen. Get up, eat, sleep and repeat. This is what you were meant to do and be, shine.
Up to this year, It's been no joke. I mean I've held a raquet in my hand ever since I was 4. I had to choose at the age of 12, weather it was going to be soccer or tennis. It was tennis in the end, although I leaned much throughout my youth in soccer. Now I'm 14. Planning what I want to do, and all of that. Luckily, I've found my key perspective that I must use this year to be successful. You may be asking, how could a 14 year old girl be thinking this way, well I got injured which taught me to appreciate the things you have in life because tomorrow they may not be there. Also, which is the hardest thing to do in high school, to not get distracted with ANYTHING else that isn't tennis or schooling. Also, to understand that I must sacrifice things in order to get what I want in life, to be happy. Tennis and school are my social life, Friends and family are also important because they help me get through things. Which is why anything outside of that circle, I must not get distracted by to achieve the success I want in life.